For e.g.

If I say, I like Hitler, it ends up propagating as I hate Jews.

If I say, I believe in arrange marriages, it ends up as I am against love marriages.

If I say, I do not have to drink every time I party, it doesn’t mean that I am against drinking or partying or I am not against who do that always.

Why can’t we keep it simple instead of adding complications. I mean Hitler had many qualities, and not all of them were bad. I admire his devotion and respect towards his home country, Germany (that’s what I read it from books). But it doesn’t mean that I admire his atrocities towards Jews. In the same way, there are so many incidences that occur in our day to day life. But people around us end up reading between lines and make some incorrect conclusion and spread it across.

It becomes extremely difficult to deal with these scenarios. At times, people can even understand or hear words that you did not event speak. It becomes extremely important to properly read the audience around you before you even start to speak.

Sometimes, it makes me wonder, what if I remove all the fear in my life, will I take the same decisions that I have taken so far? Will I do the same things, behave same way that I have been doing?

Hypothetically—

First situation:-

I stopped worrying about the future. I stopped thinking and taking actions that will ascertain that my future is good. I stopped working (too hard) and instead start doing bare minimum to comfort me and my present.Trying and doing everything that will make me happy at present and not for my future. I might have a good time today but in future I will have to suffer. I will be struggling when I will not have enough energy. I will be old, sick and destitute. I along with my family will be suffering for the bad decisions I have taken at present. All these thoughts (fear) is my guiding light. These fears helps me to be sane and taking right decisions so that my future holds good.

Second situation:-

In Hinduism, there is a concept of reincarnation. You are born, you live, you die, you are reborn and the cycle continues until and unless you achieve Nirvana. You cannot remember what you have done in your past life. But based on the sins of your past life, your current life will be decided by GOD. So, if in my current life, I am good to others and always do the right thing, I will be blessed with a better life in the next life. At the same time, if I am bad to others, do all inhuman and immoral activities then I will be punished for my sins in the next life. So this fear, make sure that everyone in this world tries to be as moral as they can. Due to this fear, people do not hurt others (even if they want to). This fear keeps a tab of the moral values on everyone.

Difference between two scenarios:

In the first one, the result of your actions (good or bad) will be in the same life. You will have to suffer for your decisions in later part of life. But you will have to suffer in the very life. You will remember everything that you did, you did not do and result of your actions. This is a good lesson to yourself and others.

In the second one, the result of your actions (good or bad) will be in the next life. You will suffer for your actions, but in the next life. This means you will not remember what you have done before and why are you being punished. In this scenario, when I know the result is in my next life and I won’t even remember what I have done, what prohibits me from doing any immoral activities in my current life? What prohibits me from not being the next Dawood Ibrahim? For me, Dawood did all the immoral activities and he is living a king’s life. He is not being punished for his sins in this life. He might get punished in the next one. But who cares about the next life.

Think about the politicians in India. Most of them are bad and immoral but even they are living a king’s life. People comment that they definitely have some problems/tensions that we do not see. My point, who doesn’t have problems and tensions in this world? I mean people still die, people still suffer from diseases, people still loose their loved ones in some tragic accident. All these problems are still there irrespective whether you being good or bad. Then why not be bad and spend a king’s life knowing that your next life will be bad.

I still have my morals in place but I don’t understand why they are in place. I don’t see any implication for being immoral. I believe these questions are asked by common man but the inability to find the answer or fear for not doing the immoral activities, people continue to do which harms the society.

2011 has been a good year. I got married. My job has been stable. My cousin got married. My married life has been stable. Met good people around. Made new friends. Learnt new things in life.

But i expect the following things in the new year.
1) Grow professionally.
2) Understand easily the difference between a friend and a back stabber (not an enemy).
3) Handle other important things properly like personal life, family life, social life, social activities etc.
3) Find the path that will lead me to my dream and destiny.
4) Make an impact to the society.

I am not sure whether I will be able to attain or accomplish all my expectations but I pray to GOD that I make all the right decisions that’ll lead me to my destiny.

I am ready to do all the hard work and put in all my efforts and I hope that GOD bless me and direct me to right direction.

I been very irregular in my blogs these days. Right now, blogs are not the priority at all. I spend most of time watching movies or TV shows over and over. I keep on promising myself not to re-run any movie or TV show but end up doing it. Anyways, a different blog for that some time later.

I had my yearly India visit and I would say this was the by far the best visit of my life. I was in India just for two weeks but I never felt so happy and content. The good part is, I know the exact reason for my happiness.

Every India trip, I visit some religious places in India. Sailani (a small town near Buldana) is one of the place which I visit without fail. The typical activity I perform there:

1. Reach Sailani
2. Visit all the “dargahs”
3. Return back.

But this time I added two more activites:

1. We reached Sailani
2. We got food with us and we distributed food to 100 people
3. We distributed clothes.
4. We visited all the “dargahs”
5. We returned.

There are many poor people in Sailani. Sailani is not a place with all the richness like Tirupati or Shirdi. It really felt very nice to help these people. I understand giving food for a day is not going to make a very big significance in their life but it just took care of one day. If people start doing something just for one day then eventually the entire year will be taken care and these destitute people will find some hope and happiness in their gloomy life.

Sometime, I still feel happy when I retrospect my day at this religious place. I believe I understood what actually eternal peace means. No job, no money, no car, no house, no gadget helped me attaining this state.

I wish to do something for the poor and destitute throughout the year and not just one day. Please direct me to the right groups (if you know of)  so that I can help them while I am not in India.

Requirements for Happy Life…

1. Good education

2. Decent stable job

3. Good place to live

4. Good and happy family

5. A good and understanding wife

6. Good friends around and

7. A decent life with all the required amenities.

By God’s grace, I have all of these but still there is something that is missing in my life. I wish I would know what it is but still not able to discover it. I know that I am very lucky to have all of these but still not able to appreciate it entirely because of one missing thing.

A pray for some enlightenment and help me solve some mysteries of my life. I think then only I will be able to attain the eternal peace.

All the books that talks about Happy Life are a sham. Every person is different and has different requirements.

In short, there is no one Mantra for Happy LIFE…..

1. All the political parties and leaders condemning the cowardly act.

2. Internationally, the act will be condemned.

3. 24/7 telecast of the blast site for a week.

4. Two weeks of discussion around the country with some investigation progress.

5. And then, everything goes right in the dust bin and everyone is back to their usual life.

Hold on, I think I know all this. This is like Deja-vu…. If I am not wrong, the same thing happen about a month ago in Mumbai and 4-6 times in the last 2-3 years.

We all say that the government is at fault, the intelligence bureau is useless and the police is worthless. But I really feel, We, The People of India, are careless.

We do not even care of these blasts if none of our family member is affected. For most of us, it is just a number game. 100 dead, 200 dead, 400 dead….

I remember having a discussion with my friend, that for a long time nothing happened in India. I realized that we are just waiting for something to happen. We anticipate and wait for bomb blast or any other terrorist activities to happen. This is what is wrong with our attitude.

Just to be fair and square, I am no different in attitude. Even for me, it is the same. Read news, call home, talk to people about the blast, do the blame game (a week of discussion) and then get back to normalcy. I hope someday we all (including me) change our attitude toward this….

Must read fully!!!!!!

DISCLAIMER: I DON’T ENDORSE ANY POLITICAL PARTY.  NOR DO I ENDORSE ANY OF WHAT MAYAWATI IS DOING.  WAS JUST TAKEN ABACK BY RAHUL GANDHI’S HYPOCRITICAL COMMENT AT THE RECENT  FARMER AGITATION IN UTTAR PRADESH.

Rahul Gandhi: “I feel ashamed to call myself an INDIAN after seeing what  has happened here in UP”.

PLEASE DON’T BE ASHAMED OF U.P. YET

Please don’t be ashamed of Uttar Pradesh yet. Congress ruled the State for  the Majority of the duration Pre Independence to Post Independence. . from  1939 to 1989 ( barring the Periods of Emergency.. Thanks to your Grand Mom  Indira G. and a couple of transitional Governments)

8 out of the total 14 Prime Ministers of India have been from UP, 6 out of  those 8 have been from Congress…

I think your party had more than half a century and half a Dozen PM’s  to  build a State…

The Reason Mulayam Singh, subsequently came to Power is because your party  wasn’t exactly Gandhian in their dealings in the State.. So May be If you  look at in totality the present chaos in UP is the outcome of the glorious  leadership displayed by Congress in UP for about 50 years!

So Please don’t feel ashamed as yet Dear Rahul.. For Mayawati is only  using  the Land Acquisition Bill which your party had itself used to LOOT the  Farmers many times in the Past!

WHY DIDN’T YOUR PARTY CHANGE THE BILL WHEN IT WAS IN POWER  FOR SO LONG?

Not that I Endorse what Mayawati is doing.. What Mayawati is doing is  Unacceptable. .

But the past actions of your party and your recent comments, puts a  question  mark on your INTENT and CONSISTENCY.

YOU REALLY WANT TO FEEL ASHAMED

But don’t be disappointed, I would give you ample reasons to feel  ashamed…

You really want to feel Ashamed..?

First Ask Pranav Mukherjee, Why isn’t he giving the details of the account  holders in the Swiss Banks.

Ask your Mother, Who is impeding the Investigation against Hasan Ali in  the  74,000 Crore tax evasion case ?

Rajiv Gandhi had a total of Swiss Franc 2.5 billion ($2.2 billion) in   secret  account In November 1991 [SEE ANNEXURE 10]

After his death, SoniaG was the sole beneficiary of that amount. And that  was 1991, Only She knows her account balance now.. Could that be the  reason  the Govt. of India is not releasing the list of account holders in the  Swiss  Banks ?

Ask her, Who got 60% Kickbacks in the 2G Scam ?

Kalamdi is accused of a Few hundred Crores, Who Pocketed the Rest in the  Common Wealth Games?

Ask Praful Patel who made Indian Airlines so Sick? Why did Air India let  go  of the Profitable Routes ?

Why should the Tax Payer pay for the Air India losses?

Also, You People can’t run an Airline Properly. How can we expect you to  run  the Nation?

Ask Manmohan Singh. Why/What kept him quiet all this while?

People say He is Honest. Honest to the Nation, or Honest to a PERSON?

THE CBI raided the vault of the Reserve Bank of India and found a huge  cache  of COUNTERFEIT INDIAN currency lying in the denomination of 500 and 1000.  IN
THE RESERVE BANK OF INDIA???

Why is the Govt. of India quiet on that ?

So, Could the reasons for sustained INFLATION be MORE related to POLITICS  than ECONOMICS?

Who let the BHOPAL GAS TRAGEDY Accused go Scot Free? (20,000 People died  in
that Tragedy)

Who ordered the State Sponsored Massacre of SIKHS in 84?

Please read more about, How Indira Gandhi pushed the Nation Under  Emergency
in 76-77, after the HC declared her election to Lok Sabha Void!

(I bet She had utmost respect for DEMOCRACY and JUDICIARY and FREE PRESS)

I guess you know the answers already. So My question is, Why the Double  Standards in Judging Mayawati and members of your Family and Party?

I condemn Mayawati. But Is She the only one you feel Ashamed for?

What about the ones close to you? For their contribution to the Nation’s  Misery is beyond comparison.

You talk about the Land being taken away from the Farmers. How many  Suicides
have happened under your Parties Rule in Vidarbha ? Does that Not Ashame You  ?

THE 72,000 CRORE LOAN WAIVER

Your Party gave those Farmers a 72,000 Crore Loan Waiver. Which didn’t  even
reach the Farmers by the way.

So, Why don’t you focus on implementing the policies which your govt. has  undertaken, instead of earning brownie points by trying to manufacture consent by bombarding us with pictures of having food with Poor  Villagers… .

You want to feel ashamed. You can feel ashamed for your Party taking  CREDIT
for DEBITING the Public Money (72,000 crores) from the Government Coffers  and literally Wasting it…

You want to feel ashamed.. Feel ashamed for that…

WHY ONLY HIGHLIGHT THIS ARREST?

Dear Rahul, to refresh your memory, you were arrested/detained by the FBI  the BOSTON Airport in September 2001.

You were carrying with you $ 1,60,000 in Cash. You couldn’t explain why  you
were carrying so much Cash.  Incidentally He was with his Columbian girlfriend Veronique Cartelli,  ALLEGEDLY, the Daughter of Drug Mafia.

9 HOURS he was kept at the Airport.

Later then freed on the intervention of the then Prime Minister Mr.  Vajpayee.. FBI filed an equivalent of an FIR in US and released him.

When FBI was asked to divulge the information, by Right/Freedom to  Information Activists about the reasons Rahul was arrested … FBI asked  for  a NO OBJECTION CERTIFICATE from Rahul Gandhi.

So Subramaniyam Swami wrote a Letter to Rahul Gandhi, ” If you have  NOTHING
to HIDE, Give us the Permission”

HE NEVER REPLIED!

Why did that arrest not make Headlines Rahul? You could have gone to the  Media and told, “I am ashamed to call myself an INDIAN?”.

Or is it that, you only do like to highlight Symbolic Arrests (like in UP)  and not Actual Arrests ( In BOSTON)

Kindly Clarify…..

In any case, you want to feel ashamed, Read Along…

YOUR MOTHER’S SO CALLED SACRIFICE OF GIVING UP PRIME MINISTER SHIP in  2004.

According to a Provision in the Citizenship Act a Foreign National who becomes a Citizen of India, is bounded by the same  restrictions, which an Indian would face, If he/she were to become a  Citizen  of Italy.

(Condition based on principle of reciprocity)

[READ ANNEXURE- 1&2]

Now Since you can’t become a PM in Italy, Unless you are born there.

Likewise an Italian Citizen can’t become Indian PM, unless He/She is not  born here!

Dr. SUBRAMANIYAM SWAMI (The Man who Exposed the 2G Scam) sent a letter to
the PRESIDENT OF INDIA bringing the same to his Notice. [READ LETTER TO  THE  PRESIDENT IN ANNEXURE -3]

PRESIDENT OF INDIA sent a letter to Sonia Gandhi to this effect, 3:30 PM,  May 17th, 2004.

Swearing Ceremony was scheduled for 5 PM the same Day.

Manmohan Singh was brought in the Picture at the last moment to Save  Face!!

Rest of the SACRIFICE DRAMA which she choreographed was an EYE WASH!!!

Infact Sonia Gandhi had sent, 340 letters, each signed by different MP to  the PRESIDENT KALAM, supporting her candidacy for PM.

One of those letters read, I Sonia Gandhi, elected Member from Rai Bareli,  hereby propose Sonia Gandhi as Prime Minister.

So SHE was Pretty INTERESTED! Until She came to know the Facts!

So She didn’t make any Sacrifice, It so happens that SONIA GANDHI couldn’t
have become the PM of INDIA that time.

You could be Ashamed about that Dear Rahul!! One Credential Sonia G had,
Even that was a HOAX!

THINK ABOUT YOURSELF.

You go to Harvard on Donation Quota. ( Hindujas Gave HARVARD 11 million
dollars the same year, when Rajiv Gandhi was in Power)

Then you are expelled in 3 Months/ You Dropped out in 3 Months…. ( Sadly  Manmohan Singh wasn’t the Dean of Harvard that time, else you might have  had
a chance… Too Bad, there is only one Manmohan Singh!)

Some Accounts say, You had to Drop out because of Rajiv Gandhi’s  Assassination.
May be, But Then Why did you go about lying about being Masters in  Economics
from Harvard .. before finally taking it off your Resume upon questioning  by
Dr. SUBRAMANIYAM SWAMI (The Gentlemen who exposed the 2G Scam)

At St. Stephens.. You Fail the Hindi Exam.

Hindi Exam!!!

And you are representing the Biggest Hindi Speaking State of the Country?

SONIA GANDHI’s EDUCATIONAL QUALIFICATIONS

Sonia G gave a sworn affidavit as a Candidate that She Studied English at  University of Cambridge

[SEE ANNEXURE-6, 7_37a]

According to Cambridge University, there is no such Student EVER! [ SEE  ANNEXURE -7_39]

Upon a Case by Dr. Subramaniyam Swami filed against her,  She subsequently dropped the CAMBRIDGE CREDENTIAL from her Affidavit.

Sonia Gandhi didn’t even pass High School. She is just 5th class Pass!

In this sense, She shares a common Educational Background with her 2G  Partner in Crime, Karunanidhi.

You Fake your Educational Degree, Your Mother Fakes her Educational  Degree.

And then you go out saying, ” We want Educated Youth into Politics!”

Letters sent by Dr. Swami to EC and then Speaker of Lok Sabha are in
ANNEXURE 7_36 &7_35 RESPECTIVELY

Contrast that with Gandhi Ji , who went to South Africa, Became a  Barrister,  on Merit, Left all that to work for South Africa, then for the Country….

WHY LIE ABOUT EDUCATIONAL CREDENTIALS?

Not that Education is a Prerequisite for being a great Leader, but then  you  shouldn’t have lied about your qualifications!

You could feel a little ashamed about Lying about your Educational  Qualifications. You had your reasons I know, Because in India, WE RESPECT  EDUCATION!

But who cares about Education, When you are a Youth Icon!!

YOUTH ICON

You traveled in the Local Train for the first time at the Age of 38.

You went to some Villages as a part of Election Campaign.

And You won a Youth Icon!! … That’s why You are my Youth Icon.

For 25 Million People travel by Train Everyday. You are the First Person   to  win a  Youth Icon for boarding a Train.

Thousands of Postmen go to remotest of Villages. None of them have yet  gotten a youth Icon.

You were neither YOUNG Nor ICONIC!

Still You became a Youth Icon beating Iconic and Younger Contenders like  RAHUL DRAVID.

Shakespeare said, What’s in a Name?

Little did he knew, It’s all in the Name, Especially the Surname!

Speaking of Surname, Sir

DO YOU REALLY RESPECT GANDHI, OR IS IT JUST TO CASH IN ON THE GOODWILL OF  MAHATMA ?

Because the Name on your Passport(ITALIAN) is RAUL VINCI.
Not RAHUL GANDHI..

May be if you wrote your Surname as Gandhi, you would have experienced,
what  Gandhi feels like, LITERALLY ( Pun Intended)

You People don’t seem to use Gandhi much, except when you are fighting
Elections. ( There it makes complete sense).

Imagine fighting elections by the Name Raul Vinci…

It feels sadly Ironic, Gandhi Ji, who inspired Icons like Nelson Mandela  ,Martin Luther King Jr. and John Lennon, across the world, Couldn’t  inspire  members of his party/ Nehru’s Family, who only seem to use his Surname for  the purposes of FIGHTING ELECTIONS and conveniently use a different name  on  their PASSPORT.

You could feel ashamed for your Double Standards.

YOUTH INTO POLITICS.

Now You want Youth to Join Politics.

I say First you Join Politics.

Because you haven’t Joined Politics. You have Joined a Family Business.

First you Join Politics. Win an Election fighting as RAUL VINCI and Not  Rahul Gandhi, then come and ask the youth and the Educated Brass for more  involvement in Politics.

Also till then, Please don’t give me examples of Sachin Pilot and Milind  Deora and Naveen Jindal as youth who have joined Politics..

They are not Politicians. They Just happen to be Politicians.

Much Like Abhishek Bachchan and other Star Sons are not Actors. They just  happen to be Actors (For Obvious Reasons)

So, We would appreciate if you stop requesting the Youth to Join Politics  till you establish your credentials. ..

WHY WE CAN’T JOIN POLITICS!

Rahul Baba, Please understand, Your Father had a lot of money in your  Family  account ( in Swiss Bank) when he died.

Ordinary Youth has to WORK FOR A LIVING.

YOUR FAMILY just needs to NETWORK FOR A LIVING

If our Father had left thousands of Crores with us, We might consider  doing  the same..

But we have to Work. Not just for ourselves. But also for you. So that we  can pay 30% of our Income to the Govt. which can then be channelized to  the  Swiss Banks and your Personal Accounts under some Pseudo Names.

So Rahul, Please don’t mind If the Youth doesn’t Join Politics. We are  doing  our best to fund your Election Campaigns and your Chopper Trips to the  Villages.

Somebody has to Earn the Money that Politicians Feed On.

NO WONDER YOU ARE NOT GANDHI’S. YOU ARE SO CALLED GANDHI’S!!

Air India, KG Gas Division, 2G, CWG, SWISS BANK Account Details… Hasan
Ali, KGB.

Then Sonia Gandhi proclaimed ‘zero tolerance’ to corruption at a party  rally  in Allahabad in November 2010. WHAT A HYPOCRITE!

You want to feel ashamed..

Feel Ashamed for what the First Family of Politics has been reduced to…

A Money Laundering Enterprise.

NO WONDER YOU ARE NOT GANDHI’S BY BLOOD. GANDHI is an adopted Name. For Indira didn’t marry Mahatma Gandhi’s Son.

For even if you had one GENE OF GANDHI JI in your DNA. YOU WOULDN’T HAVE  BEEN PLAGUED BY SUCH ‘POVERTY OF AMBITION’ ( Ambition of only EARNING  MONEY)

You really want to feel Ashamed.

Feel Ashamed for what you ‘ SO CALLED GANDHI’S’ have done to MAHATMA’S
Legacy..

I so wish GANDHI JI had Copyrighted his Name!

Meanwhile,  I would request Sonia Gandhi to change her name to $ONIA  GANDHI,  and you could replace the ‘R’ in RAHUL/RAUL by the New Rupee Symbol!!!

RAUL VINCI : I am ashamed to call myself an Indian.

Even we are ashamed to call you so!

P.S: Popular Media is either bought or blackmailed, controlled to  Manufacture Consent!

My Guess is Social Media is still a Democratic Platform. (Now they  are trying to put legislations to censor that too!!)

Meanwhile, Let’s ask these questions, for we deserve some Answers.   For we are all Gandhi’s. For Bapu is the Father of the Nation!

To know more, Try looking for Dr. SUBRAMANIYAM SWAMI. He is the reason  today  2G SCAM is being Investigated! !! He also happens to be a FORMER UNION LAW  MINISTER.

YOURS SINCERELY

NITIN GUPTA ( RIVALDO)

B.Tech, IIT Bombay

But since last 2-3 days, I am feeling very nostalgic about my engineering days. I am really missing those days.

- I miss those zillion hours spent talking about useless things.

- I miss those times with my friends having breakfast, lunch, snacks, dinner for the whole day. In the end, you realize that you have just ate from every place in that vicinity.

- I miss those petty fights with my friends over the smallest thing possible. It was as if there was a competition as to Who fights over the smallest thing possible?

- I miss those impromptu plans in the middle of the night

- I miss those planning sessions when we want to do some thing on a particular day and end up doing nothing.

- I miss those frugal means of living. Having bare minimum wealth at your disposal and enjoying every penny of it.

- I miss the jealousy, pride, ego and confidence in almost everyone I see around me (including myself)

There are many many many things I miss but most important I miss is the innocence in everyone around me. I do get to spend time with my college friends but I miss the innocence. Everyone has changed including myself. We do not behave in the same way anymore. Now, life is too serious and complicated. Everyone has a goal which is either achieved or yet to be achieved. Everyone has a parallel life. Now we have wealth but not enough excitement to enjoy every penny. The spark is fading away. We all are connected (Phone, Emails, Internet) but still the connection is not strong enough. With time, the connecting strings are getting weaker and weaker.

I miss you all my friends. Every experience (good or bad) was worth. Those were very important to shape my personality what is today.

I MISS YOU……..

The movie is little scary (and I mean it, little scary). The movie does leave an impression on you but the story is really funny.

The gist of the story…. (Don’t worry, I am not spoiling anything for you. There is no suspense in the movie)

A house is haunted by two ghosts. A teacher and a student.

1. A teacher is madly in love with his student.
2. Teacher wants to have sexual relationship with the student.
3. Student do not agree with the teacher hence teacher tries to rape the student.
4. Student kills the teacher.
5. Teacher comes back as a ghost. Now the teacher(a ghost) rapes the student(a human).
6. Student bears the sexual assault for 3-4 days and end her life.
7. Now, the student too turns into a ghost.

Now the story is really funny….

The teacher(a ghost) house arrest the student (another ghost) and rapes her everyday. I will stop the story right here…

A ghost raping another ghost…….!!!!
First of all, a ghost raping a human is funny. Now a ghost raping another ghost…!!!!

I was confused, should I be scared or should I be laughing.

What should be done to achieve it or change it?
Who is going to help me?
Who is my true friend?
Who is going to be around me?
Who is trustworthy?
Who is going to be my lucky stone?
…….

I just want to take the easier way to find answers to all these questions. It is said that, journey is always better than destination. But, I want to disagree with it.

Anyways, tomorrow I will be back to the reality and the journey will resume.