There are many books that explains the mantra for Happy Life. I will try to summarize all of that in my blog post.
Requirements for Happy Life…
1. Good education
2. Decent stable job
3. Good place to live
4. Good and happy family
5. A good and understanding wife
6. Good friends around and
7. A decent life with all the required amenities.
By God’s grace, I have all of these but still there is something that is missing in my life. I wish I would know what it is but still not able to discover it. I know that I am very lucky to have all of these but still not able to appreciate it entirely because of one missing thing.
A pray for some enlightenment and help me solve some mysteries of my life. I think then only I will be able to attain the eternal peace.
All the books that talks about Happy Life are a sham. Every person is different and has different requirements.
In short, there is no one Mantra for Happy LIFE…..
Every person shares many relationships with others. A person is a friend, a husband/wife, a daughter/son, a parent, a brother/sister etc. All these relationships makes a person happy and complete. These relationships are very important to enjoy life. Without these relationships, life is gloomy, boring and depressing. We all know about these things but we all are stuck in the mesh of the relationships. We all have some problem with one or the other relations. Even though we understand the importance of a relationship, we are unable to enjoy the fruits of it. We know everything but we just don’t give enough credibility to “Appreciation”.
Appreciating a relationship is very important in maintaining it. It is very important to call up your best friend and tell him, “You are my best friend”. It is very important to tell your wife/husband that your life would be incomplete without her/him. It is very important to tell your brother/sister that you are fortunate to have such siblings. It is very important to tell your parents that they are the best and most dearest in the world. It is very important to do all this. It helps in building your relationship and make it stronger.
Most of the time, we take all these relationships for granted. We know that our best friend is going to be there to help you. We know, our parents are always going to be on our side. We know, it is our wife/husband, taking extreme care during tough times. We know all these but we fail to appreciate it. Appreciation is very important. Though at times it might feel a bit awkward but it is very necessary. Appreciate everything you have around, everything you care about, everyone you care about. Let them know how happy you feel for having them in your life. Let them know and you will feel the difference in the relationship and the life.
We spend a lot of time and energy trying to show our fury on a person and absolutely do not care to tell the person when you are happy about them. When was the last time your appreciated some one?
Don’t forget one thing, Life is short…!!!!!